"SIDE CHICK" PRINCIPLE

Hey! Hey! Hey!... It's not too late to say "Happy new week!!". I've been free lately,  no school stress and all. The short break has been going smoothly and I'm happy about it.
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Yesterday's was my bestie's birthday 🎂 and my day was alive and filled with awesome memories. Today, I woke up quite late, did some squats and decided to post something here.
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I saw something like this while surfing the net. "If he has a side chick, it doesn't mean he's a cheat. There's a reason why it's called side chick". I laughed so hard and I remembered this friend of mine.
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I had this friend dating a dude like dat with a lot of confidence and commitment . I used to love her zeal for keeping her relationship until I found out the dude was actually not faithful (that "wth" feeling). I met a level mate in a cab one day and he was discussing with his friends about the same guy my friend was dating. I call that "pimp shaming".
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I decided to make my friend know about it. Well, I'm not used to meddling in people's private life. I thought it would be fair if I truly let her know who she's willing to spend her life with.
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After our lectures,  I decided to have a short conversation with her. I made it known to her that her "supposed faithful man"  was maybe pretending to her. I turned out to be the bad person.  I wanted to ruin her life and all sort of things came through my mind. Seriously, I was only trying to help her stay away from that snare.
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Years have gone by and we aren't as close as we used to be just because of the same guy.  Right now, her life is a mess.  She's the talk of her friends. They bitch on her everywhere they go and that hasn't been fair enough but what can I do??? Absolutely nothing. She has found out he's a renowned pimp and can't do anything about it.
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Probably, she heeded to this same quote I saw. Too bad for ladies who believe their spouse having side chicks can still be faithful. I really don't understand that principle. If he's too busy with his side chick(s),  you are also one. Don't waste your time trying to keep a man that isn't staying.
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Guys with side chicks, date girls of your kind. Stop deceiving serious minded souls. That's a very wrong thing. The same measure of what you do will be done to your sisters and even loved ones.
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I still wonder how he can have side chick(s)  and still not be a cheat. It's like two contradicting statements. Girls!!! Please, stop being gullible.  It doesn't work that way.



DON'T JUDGE, CELEBRATE OLUMIDE ORESEGUN!!!

It's no news Olumide Oresegun's art work is going viral. He is being celebrated for his tremendous oil paintings. It reflects the culture, norms and demographic settings of Africa even as far as Africa's vibrancy. It's not even arguable but certain that "BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL".
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Meanwhile, some of us are celebrating our talented brother, others are out there to spit venom on his work. Nigerians!!! but why?? Some particular set of people said his work is Paedophilia and it reflects something obscene. Like seriously!!!!  Some people got no chills.
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This dude's work is close to perfect if it's not perfect. It has a great story to tell and obviously realistic. So why would some people be so quick to judge??
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In life science lectures,  when they have to talk about anatomy and physiology of primates. Some lecturers bring nude pictures showing dissected parts of humans and all that. It doesn't mean the lecturers are perverts.
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You don't know the purpose of something so why just criticize and interprete it the wrong way?? Nudity doesn't always mean sexual, if not all doctors must be perverts. If you don't like his work, do yours and let's see if it will be appreciated by everyone in this world.
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You don't have to criticise everything, do you really have to???  Keep mute if you don't appreciate it.



HYGIENE

I think this is not right or well maybe, funny to others. Why do you 'pee' in public without proper sanitary measures??
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... That is how I boarded a bus from Ikotun to Egbeda and there was this pretty lady that notified the driver to stop the bus because she was very uncomfortable. She wanted to urinate.
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She alighted from the bus and went straight to a nearby fence at the side of the main road.  Up till now, I wonder how she took off her pants(hehe.. professional something). The next thing I saw was that she rubbed her hands on her skirt and acted like nothing happened.
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Nothing to clean up, not even a linen to wipe her hands (some Nigerians can fall person hand sha).
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Why wouldn't  you use the toilet before embarking on a short journey?? If it's a long journey, take things that are necessary for you to stay clean after urinating. Baby's wipe is just three hundred and eighty naira. It might probably be five hundred naira now because of the dollar rise (that's Nigeria for you). Seriously, help your ministry as a lady. Don't go about with cute dresses and a nice make-up only for you to pose filthy in public. Peace!