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Yesterday's was my bestie's birthday 🎂 and my day was alive and filled with awesome memories. Today, I woke up quite late, did some squats and decided to post something here.
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I saw something like this while surfing the net. "If he has a side chick, it doesn't mean he's a cheat. There's a reason why it's called side chick". I laughed so hard and I remembered this friend of mine.
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I had this friend dating a dude like dat with a lot of confidence and commitment . I used to love her zeal for keeping her relationship until I found out the dude was actually not faithful (that "wth" feeling). I met a level mate in a cab one day and he was discussing with his friends about the same guy my friend was dating. I call that "pimp shaming".
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I decided to make my friend know about it. Well, I'm not used to meddling in people's private life. I thought it would be fair if I truly let her know who she's willing to spend her life with.
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After our lectures, I decided to have a short conversation with her. I made it known to her that her "supposed faithful man" was maybe pretending to her. I turned out to be the bad person. I wanted to ruin her life and all sort of things came through my mind. Seriously, I was only trying to help her stay away from that snare.
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Years have gone by and we aren't as close as we used to be just because of the same guy. Right now, her life is a mess. She's the talk of her friends. They bitch on her everywhere they go and that hasn't been fair enough but what can I do??? Absolutely nothing. She has found out he's a renowned pimp and can't do anything about it.
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Probably, she heeded to this same quote I saw. Too bad for ladies who believe their spouse having side chicks can still be faithful. I really don't understand that principle. If he's too busy with his side chick(s), you are also one. Don't waste your time trying to keep a man that isn't staying.
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Guys with side chicks, date girls of your kind. Stop deceiving serious minded souls. That's a very wrong thing. The same measure of what you do will be done to your sisters and even loved ones.
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I still wonder how he can have side chick(s) and still not be a cheat. It's like two contradicting statements. Girls!!! Please, stop being gullible. It doesn't work that way.
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